I'm 6 months pregnant lady . My friends tell me , " Men can't live without sex . In the months ahead , your husband will chase girls; until the day you can start giving him sex again . " I hate the thought of adultery. What can I do ?
By Nirmala Singapore
Dear Nirmala ,
Help your husband in two ways :
1 ) Continue sex with him until the end of your 8th month . Then he should not enter your vagina for 4 weeks before childbirth , and 5 weeks after. During those 9 weeks , you can find ways to love and satisfy him .
After the 9 weeks, enjoy sex again, but use family Planning so you don't become pregnant again too soon .
2) Avoid the mistake that so many wives make, which is : The wife gets overly busy showing concern for her baby , and she forgets to show much concern for her husband .
Then the husband feels replaced by baby , and so adultery becomes a stronger temptation .
To avoid that , be careful to show much love to your husband even though you are busy caring for your baby .
Husbands : If you commit adultery , God will never say " It's not your fault .... It's your wife's fault ".